They eloped in a huff before her father could marry her off to an older man. And 81-years-later, John and Ann Betar are the longest married couple in America and still going strong.
What's their secret?
"Well, marriage isn't a lovey-dovey thing, you know, for 80 years, you know. You learn to accept one another's ways of life, agreements, disagreements, disagreements on our children, preparation on bringing up your kids. That was the main interest was your children."
Now 102-year-old, John chuckles when he thinks back about the couples main source of disagreement.
"It's only about cooking. It's only about cooking, that's the only arguments we had."
It's been a long time since the couple tied the knot and they've weathered hardships. Within the last 15 years they lost two children to cancer. But they would rather focus on the good times
Watch this beautiful Connecticut couple sharing their secrets to longevity as they mark their 81st wedding anniversary.